Why have the courts decided we cant see our children after 14 yrs old?

How in Gods name can anyone tell us we can't see our own children after age 14. I just dont get it. I think this is so wrong. Since when do 15 16 17 yr olds that have to go to school but may not like it, decide they can stop visiting their non custodial parents? Why did this ever come about , who decided this? We still have to pay suport though or they take our licenses our homes and our livelihoods. Us dads are getting the shaft and I am very sad hurt and this is ungodly. Thanks alot courts of America Im truley disgusted. Never mind Gods rules on adultery some of us have suffered too. Amen